Giving Good Head: Part Deux

It’s a basic male instinct to seek oral gratification. A man loves receiving oral sex from a woman because it feels like he’s getting to fuck your mouth. Now, I said I could go on for days about techniques; these are a starting point to getting him off.

*Always use your hands as an extension of your mouth. If you can't take all of him in your mouth use your hands to provide stimulation.. so you don't miss a spot.

*Put his penis in the side of your mouth to prevent the "Gag Reflex." (One of my favorite products to help numb the gag reflex is Oral Sex Mints)

*Try to keep eye contact with your lover while orally pleasing him.

*Wrap your lips tightly around the head and use plenty of suction.

*Lick and lap the underside of his dick with your tongue flat.

*Change your rhythm from long, slow sucking to short, fast, milking action.

*Shake and wiggle his penis in your mouth.

*Hold the base tight while making spiral motions around the head.

*Gently tug his balls while sucking.

*For "Deep Throating" keep your head back and let him straddle you. (I'll give you more tips on Deep Throating later)

*Make humming sounds during oral love for some extra vibration.

*Put him between your breasts for variety.

*Gargle with mouthwash or suck on a mint prior to oral love for a tingle.

*Don't change your rhythm just before he climaxes unless he asks you to.

*Ask him how he wants to be sucked; gently, hard, slow, fast, deep...

*Need more instruction? A great go-to guide to have is The Ultimate Guide to Oral Sex.


Remember enthusiasm is more important than technique and be sure as you try each technique to gauge his response to learn which ones he really likes! 

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