Ahhhhh Valentine’s Day……A day for lovers and if you’re lucky a day for making love with your lover!!! Wouldn’t it be nice to have a mind blowing G-spot orgasm for Valentine’s Day?? You can’t expect your partner to find your G-spot if you have no idea how to find it yourself. Self experimentation is important to finding out what is pleasurable to you and also helps you to be able to better communicate to your partner where they need to go.
As your Romance Enhancement Specialist I offer several products for use alone or with your partner to help achieve that G-spot stimulation you desire.
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This is our Intro to G-Spot vibe. This vibe is perfect for the G-spot beginner. Its curved to send vibrations right to the spot with 3 speeds and 3 modes. You can use this to self explore or for bedroom fun with your partner. This vibe is made of silicone and it’s waterproof.
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Have you ever just wanted to stop him dead in his tracks and take over the show? Men are very visual, even in most cases when it come to learning. Want to know a better way to tell him exactly how you like to be rubbed, touched, or caressed? Masturbation! Masturbation plays a healthy role in the sexual lives of many women and men. It can also be a fun and intimate alternative to sexual intercourse or as foreplay when performed as a shared activity with a partner. You can masturbate your partner, or you can touch yourself in the presence of your partner. You can also masturbate together at the same time. Not only is this activity enjoyable, it can also be a very educational experience. You can learn the likes and dislikes of your partner by paying attention to techniques he or she uses during masturbation. This mutual activity can be fun in many settings including the bed, a nice hot bath, the jacuzzi, the shower, or while watching an adult film together.
Mutual masturbation is not for everyone but I find it sometimes necessary if you need or want to know how to touch or rub your partner in a way that is not only pleasurable but climatic. Since most women are unable to reach orgasm without clitoral stimulation; seeing how your partner pleasures herself gives you an idea of how to rub her just right. All penises are not created equal either so knowing what type of strokes he uses to bring himself to orgasm is a great thing to know when giving head or hand jobs. Make sure to take mental notes!
There are several things you can do to make mutual masturbation more enjoyable. First, make sure your partner is comfortable with the idea of masturbating together. Some people may think masturbation is a private practice; others will be thrilled to share the experience. If it does not come as a natural experience, do not get frustrated; there are many other sexual activities to enjoy with your partner. Second, make sure there is plenty of lube around. Touching yourself and your partner is usually easier and less rough when a small amount of lubrication is applied. Experimenting with different brands can be half the fun! One of my favorite lubes for both masturbation and intercourse is ID Glide. Its water based, hypoallergenic and reactivates with a little water or saliva.
I thought of him today, as I do everyday. I found myself getting a little hot and very bothered. So, I decided to cool off with a shower.
I hopped in and the warm water felt like his hands massaging my skin; gently teasing. As the water rolled down the front of my body, I felt my nipples get erect at the thought of him tracing cicles around my nipples with his tongue. Ahhhhhhhhh! I closed my eyes and I thought of him wrapping his arm around me and using the other to part my legs and touch me where I needed to be touched.
As I thought of him massaging my clit, my own hand found its way down to my moist spot. I started rubbing my clit slowly at first, just as I knew he would; around and around until it was hard and swollen. Then I had a thought of him kneeling before me and sticking his tongue into my dripping hole. That thought was enough to cause me to rub my pussy faster, just as his tongue would lick around faster and more aggressively; he would savor each drop of my wetness. I could not stop when I thought of him getting ready to lick up all my sweet juice, with that thought I climaxed in just enough time because the water was starting to get cold.
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Yes, I masturbate! I fit it in somewhere between crocheting, cooking and sex with Mr. Sexy. I am a poster child for self pleasure! Masturbation is a perfectly safe and natural thing, so don't be shy. Go ahead, MASTURBATE, and I'm going to tell you why you should.
1. It feels Great!!
2. It teaches you about your body-what turns you on and what doesn't. Masturbation helps you to identify your basic sexual needs and how best to satisfy them.
3. It releases tension, especially during "that time of the month." Having an orgasm releases endorphins which is a natural pain reliever, so if you are having cramps its good to masturbate. It will keep you from wanting to stab people.
4.It gets your blood flowing which is great when you have spend hours sitting and working!!
5. If you are single, it stops you from climbing the walls or sleeping with the first/every guy you meet.
6. It's totally safe sex!
7. It's a great beauty treatment. Orgasm improves circulation, combats the effects of stress and makes your skin glow!
8. You can concentrate purely on your own pleasure without worrying about someone else.
9. The more you masturbate, the more capable orgasms you'll be capable of having both with and without your partner. Just like any activity that you are not good at you practice, right? Well, look at this as practice.
10. Being able to pleasure yourself with an orgasm is true sexual independence.
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I am a mother of two young men (one of whom is an adult without giving away my age! LOL) an entrepreneur, avid crafter, diva domestic goddess and a lusty lover.