It’s a basic male instinct to seek oral gratification. A man loves receiving oral sex from a woman because it feels like he’s getting to fuck your mouth. Now, I said I could go on for days about techniques; these are a starting point to getting him off.
*Always use your hands as an extension of your mouth. If you can't take all of him in your mouth use your hands to provide stimulation.. so you don't miss a spot.
*Put his penis in the side of your mouth to prevent the "Gag Reflex." (One of my favorite products to help numb the gag reflex is Oral Sex Mints)
*Try to keep eye contact with your lover while orally pleasing him.
*Wrap your lips tightly around the head and use plenty of suction.
*Lick and lap the underside of his dick with your tongue flat.
*Change your rhythm from long, slow sucking to short, fast, milking action.
*Shake and wiggle his penis in your mouth.
*Hold the base tight while making spiral motions around the head.
*Gently tug his balls while sucking.
*For "Deep Throating" keep your head back and let him straddle you. (I'll give you more tips on Deep Throating later)
*Make humming sounds during oral love for some extra vibration.
*Put him between your breasts for variety.
*Gargle with mouthwash or suck on a mint prior to oral love for a tingle.
*Don't change your rhythm just before he climaxes unless he asks you to.
*Ask him how he wants to be sucked; gently, hard, slow, fast, deep...
*Need more instruction? A great go-to guide to have is The Ultimate Guide to Oral Sex.
Remember enthusiasm is more important than technique and be sure as you try each technique to gauge his response to learn which ones he really likes!
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So, I asked him the question...."Baby, if you were blindfolded and had to pick me out of a lineup of women only allowed to suck your dick, could you pick me out?
He replied by saying, "Hell yeah, you're the "obi wan"!" I was somewhat puzzled but then I realized he was referring to Obi Wan Kanobe, the Jedi Master in Star Wars. Okay, I'll take that as a compliment, he thinks I'm a Master at the art of sucking dick!
I would be a tad bit confident and say that I wasn't surprised because I take pride in my skills. What makes my technique so good, you ask? I enjoy it! Simple as that!
To a man receiving head is more enjoyable for them when they feel like you really enjoy what you are doing. When you enjoy giving him head you will naturally get into the act.
First of all, you must become one with the dick. Don't be afraid to touch it or lick it and if you are concerned about him being "dirty" take a shower together first as forplay. To become one with the dick look at it and stroke it. Pay attention to his reactions as you rub it fast or slow. It is very important that you pay attention because you can't suck every dick the same. When you put the dick in your mouth don't rush and just immediately start bobbing up and down. Start by just sucking and licking just the head, this is the most sensitive area. Take time to run your tongue up the sides, front and back and check for his reactions. Becoming an expert at sucking dick requires that you learn what turns him on and give all your attention to pleasing him.
You really wanna knock his socks off? SWALLOW! Men love when you are willing to take his ejaculate in your mouth and slurp it down like a cool drink. Not to worry ladies, swallowing his ejaculate is perfectly safe. (I would advise that you only do this with someone you are manogamous with, since you can transmit stds through bodily fluids.) If you are concerned about the taste, pop a peppermint before you start to perform oral sex. He will love the sensation and it will mask the taste for you.
I could go on for days about techniques but that is really not all that important to a guy. If you really want to know, ask him, they will tell you exactly what they like and will be more than glad to let you know when you are doing something right.
Your man would love to know that you enjoy giving him head. That is the ultimate turn on for him. If you are willing to suck his dick and he is on his way out the door, imagine the smile he will have on his face all day, and the fucking you are going to get when he returns!
Oh, and don't always give head and expect to receive oral from him in return, most women only "go down" because either he did it to them first or because they want him to give it to them. That is the wrong mentality to have you must remember it is always better to give than receive.
For a few tips stick around for Giving Good Head: Part Deux!
I am a mother of two young men (one of whom is an adult without giving away my age! LOL) an entrepreneur, avid crafter, diva domestic goddess and a lusty lover.