Let's Play Together, Masturbate Together

Have you ever just wanted to stop him dead in his tracks and take over the show? Men are very visual, even in most cases when it come to learning. Want to know a better way to tell him exactly how you like to be rubbed, touched, or caressed? Masturbation! Masturbation plays a healthy role in the sexual lives of many women and men. It can also be a fun and intimate alternative to sexual intercourse or as foreplay when performed as a shared activity with a partner. You can masturbate your partner, or you can touch yourself in the presence of your partner. You can also masturbate together at the same time. Not only is this activity enjoyable, it can also be a very educational experience. You can learn the likes and dislikes of your partner by paying attention to techniques he or she uses during masturbation. This mutual activity can be fun in many settings including the bed, a nice hot bath, the jacuzzi, the shower, or while watching an adult film together.


Mutual masturbation is not for everyone but I find it sometimes necessary if you need or want to know how to touch or rub your partner in a way that is not only pleasurable but climatic. Since most women are unable to reach orgasm without clitoral stimulation; seeing how your partner pleasures herself gives you an idea of how to rub her just right. All penises are not created equal either so knowing what type of strokes he uses to bring himself to orgasm is a great thing to know when giving head or hand jobs. Make sure to take mental notes!


​There are several things you can do to make mutual masturbation more enjoyable. First, make sure your partner is comfortable with the idea of masturbating together. Some people may think masturbation is a private practice; others will be thrilled to share the experience. If it does not come as a natural experience, do not get frustrated; there are many other sexual activities to enjoy with your partner. Second, make sure there is plenty of lube around. Touching yourself and your partner is usually easier and less rough when a small amount of lubrication is applied. Experimenting with different brands can be half the fun! One of my favorite lubes for both masturbation and intercourse is ID Glide. Its water based, hypoallergenic and reactivates with a little water or saliva.