All men wish their woman could be uninhibited like the ones on the porno. Most times it is not about what is going on that they like, it is what is being said that they like. YUP! I'm talking about "talking dirty".
Talking dirty requires a great deal of confidence, and it needs to be believable-otherwise you might spoil the mood because you are laughing (for some sexual encounters the giggly dirty talk may work).
Dirty talk is great as foreplay before you even make it to the bedroom. Call him on the phone and tell him how much you want him and what you would like to do to him when he gets there. I am sure when he arrives he will have a raging hard-on! When talking dirty as foreplay you want to remember the purpose is to seduce him with your words; sexy and sensuous. This is not the time for aggressive statements like "F**k me hard right now!" Save that for the actual act.
A good way to ease into talking dirty during sex is to start off by simply telling how whatever he is doing feels-"I love it when you touch me there..." A man who really cares about pleasing you will appreciate the feedback, he wants to know that he is doing a good job. They love compliments almost as much as we do, so if he has a big ****, tell him!! You may not feel comfortable using those words but you could just say "its sooo big". Its okay during sex to get a little more aggressive with your dirty talk, feel free to give him direction and let him know when he gets it right. He wants to know that you like pleasing him too so make sure you let him know. Don't forget this is a two way street! Ha!
Once you unleash your dirty talk skills and see what they can do for your sex life, you'll feel like you found a Secret, Sexy Superhero power. Use your power to make your good girl persona into a tigress between the sheets, your dominant role as the master of pleasure and erotic control, or your femme fatale identity into a prowling seductress -- bar none. Dirty talk skills can be used between the sheets, over the phone, in a chat room, in a crowded restaurant or anywhere that turns you on. Mask, cape and boots are optional.
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So as you have probably guessed from the title of this blog that I have some secrets to share with you. Some may be real, some may be fantasy but I promise you that all of them will be sexy and maybe a little naughty. My thoughts of sex and how to get more sex influence my adventures. My man, we will call him Mr. Sexy; has no problem with it at all, he encourages my creativity. Let's face it, at this day in age with so many things grabbing for our attention we have to be creative to keep that sexy fire lit! Here I am going to share with you some sexy secret tips, a few tricks and whole lot of sex *wink*. Grab a seat and let me tell you a secret......
I am a mother of two young men (one of whom is an adult without giving away my age! LOL) an entrepreneur, avid crafter, diva domestic goddess and a lusty lover.